Stressed out about gift-giving this year? Let’s face it; everyone likes to receive gifts no matter who they are, so there’s no need to worry! Studies have shown that the gift giver is much more judgmental about the gift than the receiver. With that said, thoughtful gifts are a sign that the relationship is cared about. Anyone can become a gift-giving expert by keeping a few key ideas in mind.  

1. Plan Ahead. Birthdays, anniversaries and holidays come at the same time every year. By keeping important people in mind throughout the year, you’re bound to come across a great gift for them at some point. Buy it and store it for the next gift-giving occasion.  

2. Listen! Take note when your best friend says she really loves sea turtles, your wife says that someday she’s going to buy that beautiful Hermes scarf, or your boss is a huge Dodgers fan. Write it down or record it on your phone. Those are all gift-giving clues to the trained gift expert’s ears. When the birthday/anniversary/holiday comes around, you’ll have a ready-made list tailored to each person.  

3. Be Prepared. Always have on hand a collection of items like wine, specialty candy and gift cards for those last minute gifts.

Speaking of gift cards, are they appropriate or impersonal? They can be both.  Many people like getting gift cards because they give the freedom to buy exactly what is wanted (great gift for teens!). However, a gift card to a specific store or restaurant that the receiver may or may not frequent will sit in a desk drawer for years. Gift cards paired with a handwritten note to express love or gratitude are both thoughtful and practical.  

One more way to show you care is by spending time. In our busy day-to-day lives, time is a commodity just as precious as money. Spend some time with Grandma to help decorate her house for the holidays or offer to babysit your neighbors’ children while they go gift shopping. They will remember these gifts long after the holidays are over.

Submitted by Aileen AVERY